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OK, mom died 2 years ago, dad 1. So I am finally scanning pictures. It is LONG WORK! I did an ablum from one of their trips. By time I got to the last 50 pictures (more or less) I checked and it takes me about a minute to scan a picture! My scanner can scan multiple pictures at once, but it needs to do a prescan to figure out where each picture is.
At this rate I should be done by early 2023.
Oh well, it will either pick up speed, or I will get really good at picking what to ignore!
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Hey All...I hope that you have a lovely, peaceful beginning of your weekI have a bunch of chores that need doing but may put them off til tomorrow and just hang out with my landlord/roomie todayWhat about you?...Anything special going on?Have a great day and take good care of you!!..Xo
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Once again I've had a fever today. I'm not going to the hospital because that's a huge waste of time but I did schedule a dr appointment for Wednesday afternoon.

Mom has been requiring a lot of care since her we think bronchitis bout, the antibiotics knocked her out and her legs are weak. I'm frantically looking for a good caregiver so I can still work my 3.5 days a week. So hard to find as I get about 30+ applicants and they want salaries akin to hospital pay, want to take mom out for social activities, want benefits like live-in, sponsorship to Canada. etc. Whatever happened to an honest work ethic that motivates one to work for a living?!?!?!
@LifeIsSoCruel: here in the US there are companies that provide temporary care. It can be temporary as in a day or so now and then, or temporary until the patient no longer needs the care. They offer everything from: nurses who are certified for complicated in-home equipment and are licensed and can dispense controlled substances, through what they call companion care. Companion care is mostly somebody to be there and offer assistance. Mostly they are not licensed, but are good at helping them bathe and getting dressed, can prepare meals, and know when and how to call 911 if an emergency comes up.
The pay expected goes up with the experience and skill set.
This way the people are, at least, pre-screened and their skills can be vouched for. But they will be more expensive than somebody you find on your own.
My MIL used the services of neighbor girls when she was living on her own. They mostly cleaned and helped her with things she could no longer do. MIL is still capable of her own personal hygiene and needs no assistance getting dressed or taking her meds.
I HATE paper photos with a passion. They are messy and hard to deal with. I don't even want to think of scanning them. I am more inclined to just pitch the whole bunch. (We have two 20 gallon totes full, from both families of origin and our own family.) I love looking at photos on the computer but not dragging out the totes and paging through piles of paper photos not so much. What a chore!
I wonder what a professional service would charge to scan them by the job lot?
I find that I spend about a minute per picture on the scanning, so 25 cents per picture is about $15.00 per hour. But I would think that they have a faster scanner than I do, or they work them 2 or 3 scanners at a time. But I have a hard enough time doing 1 scanner at a time, more than once I've lost track and scanned the same picture multiple times!
I suspect the only person who will look at all of this is me, and that may only be as I do it.
But I feel somehow obligated to do it.