Bereavement Support Group

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heartsong69 07/13/2010

Hi everyone. Well I just yesterday experienced my first birthday without my dear mom. I normally don't want a big fuss about the occasion (and the fact am not getting younger :))..but yes, my heart was certainly heavy. However my family, specifically my brother and niece, did their best to keep me occupied..getting me a couple really nice gifts. And I received phone calls from other relatives and friends. But overall, I knew this day was coming..and I guess perhaps the shock of her passing, which was May 22nd, still has yet to totally sink in. I don't know.

Angelpuss 07/14/2010

Hi heartsong,

Sorry for your loss. This year will be full of of "firsts" without your Mum and you will, no doubt, feel sad with each one. Next year will be a little easier and, in time, you will be able to enjoy the happy memories of times with your dear Mum.

Hugs

deleted_user 07/14/2010

I am so sorry, I know that was a difficult day for you. Glad your family and friends were there to make it nice for you.

heartsong69 07/16/2010

Thanks you Angelpuss and Amyz74..this is a long winding road for sure and other occasions are coming..and yes hopefully the pleasant memories will overtake the grief or at least quell it somewhat

deleted_user 07/19/2010

Hi. I am also having a birthday without someone I loved. It is so hard. I hope next year will be happier for both of us. Happy belated birthday.

Pam

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