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My Fiancee died August 27th of a heart attack. It has been a horrible 6 months. I am on antidepressants and they have helped a lot. Last night I dreamt that him and I were going to St. Thomas for a vacation and I was busy getting stuff done for our trip and then I heard he had a heart attack and I was upset but he was going to be okay and I was thinking we will have to postpone our trip.
I woke up and for a brief minute I thought it was only a dream and then the reality set in that he was really gone and I was filled with terror that it was even worse than the dream. I have been upsetsince that he is really gone, that it really happened and I have to live the rest of my life without him. There will be no more trips, no more time together. My worst dream came true. Does it ever end? How do we all go on without our loved ones? People say I am doing pretty good but that is their interpretation of it. ow can it ever be good again? QP
I woke up and for a brief minute I thought it was only a dream and then the reality set in that he was really gone and I was filled with terror that it was even worse than the dream. I have been upsetsince that he is really gone, that it really happened and I have to live the rest of my life without him. There will be no more trips, no more time together. My worst dream came true. Does it ever end? How do we all go on without our loved ones? People say I am doing pretty good but that is their interpretation of it. ow can it ever be good again? QP
My mom passed away on Feb 2. Will be a month on Tuesday.
Ma has been visiting me in my dreams. But last Sunday was really bad. I was all alone at home for the first time since Ma's gone.
We're Hindus by religion and we cremated ma.
That day I saw ma in my dream, all smiling and chatting with me like we used to and suddenly I board a bus with her and take her in front of a tunnel and tell her she needs to go in all alone. She gets scared and starts crying and I cry with her too. Then I kiss her goodbye and tell her she's gonna be cremated and leave her alone in the tunnel.
It has been bothering me since then. Did ma feel the pain of burning?
I too, think of the recent trip we had taken together, the fun we had and it seems unbelievable to me at times, that she's never gonna come back.
People tell me I'm strong and graceful...but that's what they want to see...that's not me..I'm heartbroken and that's my truth.
I don't have an answer for you but I know exactly how you're feeling. I believe we will have peace one day but don't know when. Still waiting for an answer.
Take care, you're not alone and hugs to you!
Im told I am dealing with some pst trauma from that as I struggle very much to remember her as she was and not how I found her. Often times true memories are replaced by terrible images from my mind, and shes angry in death.
Very bad stuff.
Then, last night, after not dreaming of her more than once, maybe twice, she was in every weird dream I had, and she had her personality, her real face.
There were others in the dreams. people from the funeral, people we knew, and there were horses...for some reason. I cant really remember much except the people, the horses, a potluck dinner, and Kathy as she was in life.
Even so, it was nice to see her again.
Maybe coz I was so disturbed already, I just wanted to have a solid sleep...which wasn't an option then.
I see ma still now, whenever I sleep, but the dreams are less vivid now.
Maybe your sister was murdered by someone she knew. Maybe you know the killer? Subconscious minds tell us so many things, which we don't remember while awake. You might want to try hypnotism.
From what we know from you, there hasn't been any arrest yet, so why not try every avenue?
Hypnotism has scientific importance, although legally not recognized.
Just a suggestion, please take care. Hugs to you.
we were told early in the investigation that it was most likely someone she knew. there was no forced entry. we know the police scenario. i've also read the autopsy report. after reading that, i realized, i truly believe someone went to her home to intentionally kill here. it was brutal, terrifying. yet the detectives themselves told me they couldn't find one person that said she had any enemies. in my mind i think i know who did it and i've told the detectives. i'm not the only one that mentioned the name. the investigation takes time. i'm learning patience. it's not like it is on tv. those shows are so far from the truth. it just doesn't work that way. i trust that the detectives are doing everything they can. if i could afford it i'd hire a private investigator. in the mean time, i try to heal the pieces i can and try to wait patiently for the answers i'm so desperately seeking.