I agree with you completely. I ignore posts about things like that and I have also had messages asking about wearing protection at night. What I wear to bed is up to me and the same applies to everyone else and having somebody telling me I must wear a nappy isn't going to make me change what I wear for bed. I'm fine wearing just pyjamas and if I wet them I change them and the sheet and I don't need people telling me I'm selfish or wrong.

It isn't always easy, but if you can, please try to report people who behave that way to Daily Strength. The admin here rely on users like yourself to report abuse when you encounter it, and if you simply ignore it there's a high chance that abuser will go on to contact other underage users. Don't ever put yourself in harm's way trying to get evidence to report someone; if they have sent you a message you regard as problematic, simply report it in as much detail as you can, ignore the user, and move on. By people like you fighting back, we have a chance to reclaim these forums from AB/DL abusers.