Stop thinking and start doing things for your self.

Every time you think, go do something.

Best wishes as you find your better balance.

That reason it is so scary to ask for what you need might vary allot. For me it is a pretty solidly because I too often end up with the opposite of what I need.

I think it depends, but usually we are afraid to ask what we want from someone because they might get mad, they might leave us, they might think differently of us, we're not good enough to ask for this, etc....

Good for you for speaking up. What you said sounds perfectly reasonable. Like @Mid and @Arfie said, don't "wait around" for a specific answer from him, just go do your own life. He will show you with actions about getting together more often. In the meanwhile, you are too busy with your fabulous fun life! :)

Don't wait around go do what you want to do or have to do. Sometimes it is scary asking for what you want and need. Because you might not like the answer you get. In the meantime just stay busy and focus on yourself. Try not to think about anything else. Things have there way of working out. Hoping for the best for the both of you.

Thanks all :) I did end up getting a response and it was positive. As scary as it was, it's progress for me! :)

Whoo, hooh!