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Tryna_B_Better
Tryna_B_Better

me and mom spent the day yesterday together and she was a mess the whole time



we got home and she got high and then things got really weird



she suddenly wants to stop by and i don't know what for, im anxious as to what it might entail



nothing serious just, shes a firecracker, it could be to talk about her upcoming nuptuals


it could be to stab me in the throat. u never know with this woman.  



and for those who think im joking, im not.  im geninely worried as to why she suddenly wants to come by , she never


does that so .............



we'll see i guess

arfie
arfie
I take lots of therapy tools with me when I visit family members like this, be the visit at their place, my place or neutral territory. The ones in my family are even scarier when they are discussing nuptials. Their notions on romance are? ? ? Please give me a safe word for ^it^.

Steadying support while you dance another round. Keep us posted. We are here for you.
Anij34
Anij34
Correct me if I'm wrong, you got together and now she wants to stop by? Do you usually just meet somewhere? Have you sought help for her drug dependence? Sounds like a detox/rehab program would go far in helping her establish healthy and safe habits. Can you have someone there, for your own safety, when she comes by? Or can you meet somewhere like a park instead?

Praying for her to break out of her dependence and for your safety.
Tryna_B_Better
Tryna_B_Better
anij34 no, its not a drug thing at all. not between us, like, i dont sell my mom drugs or anything like that. no we just hung out, she went out on the porch and got high all by herself and then came back in and acted a complete fool. no, im on probation i do my best to stay away from such things. she uses marijuana for her pain and anxiety which, more power to her, i just wish she didnt do it around me.

but no theres nothing like that. i am drug free and happy with it.

thank you though for your thoughts
Tryna_B_Better
Tryna_B_Better
and arfie, thank you very much, i really appreciate your support. i really do. like, it means a lot to me.
arfie
arfie
One for all and all for one, Tryna. United we stand. Divided we fall.

We are stronger together. Please do keep us posted.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
Big hug Tryna.... Sorry to read about added stress..... xo
Tryna_B_Better
Tryna_B_Better
Thank you guys. you can call me boogy by the way,, gotta be better than using my handle which is a good handle but its a weird thing to call someone. Boogy woogy woogy. lol. thank you all, your support means so much.
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