Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...
I've noticed over the past few months that physical sensations in my mind can be triggering. It's mostly the result of working out... A day or two after a workout, I'll feel muscle soreness, particularly in my chest or traps/upper back, which my brain wants to interpret as anxiety. If I stop, do some deep breathing and a body scan I can generally determine that I don't have any other anxious symptoms and I can relax, but the triggering will continue to happen sporadically. I don't know if I've just created an association between the two, or if this is something more common. Have others had similar experiences?
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I haven't written in my diary on my computer since May because I thought that my computer was dying. I got away from writing but my computer is hanging in there. I think that I will start writing in it again. It's so therapeutic.
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First, I hope everyone is doing well, and continuing to fight that good fight! Keep up the great work on yourselves; I'm rooting for all of you!So, I started doing therapy at the beginning of the year, when I was in my most depressed state, but with my therapist, I made big changes and steps in the right direction. But, over a month ago, she couldn't take my insurance anymore, and I had to stop...
If you feel that type of symptom again, try telling yourself "Oh, what is that feeling??? Oh, I know! It's from that hard work out I did the other day. That makes sense. I am proud of myself for working out. I am looking forward to tomorrow's work out. I'll be doing legs then. That will be good. I am really getting myself in shape! This is great!"
Then, immediately go DO something (not the body scan). Make yourself a healthy snack. Turn on some music you like. Go outside. Take a walk. DO something, because that will not give the anxiety the energy it craves. Anxiety comes from thoughts. By doing something else that doesn't require much thinking, the anxiety will get bored and go away.
You can try this every time. By the way, I got these techniques from a new and popular anxiety book called "Dare" that I am reading. To accept the anxiety and invite it along with your every day activities. Then the anxiety "gets bored" and will go away faster.
You're doing great! Keep up with the exercising. It will really help with anxiety. Even just taking walks outside will really help with anxiety. Good luck.
That quick check-in is actually what I mean by a body scan. I take a couple of seconds to go through my body... kinda check things off... no sweaty palms, no chills, no nervous energy, no racing thoughts... and then I can say, "Nope, not anxiety, I'm just sore."
As someone who has worked out his whole life, being sensitive to soreness like this is obnoxious. I like working out, but I hate aching. My wife tells me to treat it as practice. The older I get, the more I'm gonna ache "just because", so I should just get used to it.
Instead, I just get up and go DO something. And if I do something productive, it gives me an added bonus of accomplishing something I needed to go do anyway.
It helps me, I hope that will help you, too. Or, try writing it out in a journal. Get the thoughts out of your head and on to paper.