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Christmas burglary experience

Ryegella
Ryegella
I'm not keen on this time of year. Full of commercialism, advertising must have gifts that people feel peer pressured to buy and never use. The family get togethers where I feel a complete stranger. Spending time with my outlaws who always blatantly show preference to their other daughter.

2 weeks prior to Christmas I was burgled. They took Christmas and bday presents for my wife, jewellery, precious photos on laptops etc.

We were out but the dog was home when it occurred. Luckily they did it visibly hurt her, but she is very anxious now with people and noise (they smashed with downs and doors).

I have been so touched by the support of neighbours, who brought flowers and wine. Work has been fantastic and allowed me to take special leave to sort things out and to look after myself. Work colleagues brought us a dinning voucher for a meal out.

I do still occasionally feel anxious but its also reminded me what is important. I can replace stuff but my partner and dog are priceless. I'm determined not to let the burglars win and move on from this a strong person.
laurie32
laurie32
I am sorry that someone broke into your house and steal thing. I am sorry they scared your dog too. I know I would be scared too. Maybe you can start a block watch where everyone watch each other house. Have meet to talk about it and that might help you feel little better.
Ryegella
Ryegella
Thanks for your response. Neighbours have been great and that's a good suggestion. I now installed more security around the house and just trying to getting back to normal (whatever that is).
enigmaticloner
enigmaticloner
I've been robbed before, it's definitely not an easy experience, it can make your anxiety worse, I know it did to me. It didn't happen to the place I live at though, it happened to me when I was walking to the store one night, they took my cell phone. I used to walk around a lot at night by myself before that happened, but I don't do that anymore now really. It's changed the way I see things a bit. It's a good thing you're alright though that is the most important thing in those situations.
Community LeaderMid
Mid
Our vehicle was burglarized a few months ago, during pouring down rain. Yes, it was unlocked, but it was parked sideways next to the garage, and the person who took my birthday present necklace and Tifosi sunglasses with case had to walk past several other vehicles to get to it.

The dogs are finally getting back to being comfortable with noises.

I hope you get your lap top back, jewelry back, and the presents. Glad that work has given you time to sort out things, and for those people who stepped up to help you.

I agree, stuff can be replaced, not family nor animal companions.

We went through everything and have changed a few things to make it more secure.

Best wishes to feeling more comfortable!
Ryegella
Ryegella
Thanks for all the responses and kind words. It's not a nice experience and to get through I have concentrated on what I can control and have increased the security. In some respects I found dealing with the insurance claims more stressful.

I'm just determined not to let the bad actions of others affect me.
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