Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...
I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of 2yr months due to constant arguments, I was living with him.(Side note: Previous to him I had a boyfriend of 12 years which will I refer to previous ex for clarity of this messed up story). Now going back to my recent ex of 2yr ...The arguments where mostly caused because I have an anxious attachment style and im very jealous and insecure.The only thing that I was constantly jealous was of porn because on the past he lied to me about his porn usage while on a relationship with me and also because he watched very fake pornstars that I find very attractive and therefore I felt inadequate. After the arguments , he quited porn but I didn’t believe him and questioned him , snooped his phone, erc, almost everyday.Because of the porn jealousy I did not wanted to leave the house and left him alone thinking he would go to watch porn. But know im looking back and I still don’t understand my jealousy of porn. In my past 12yr relationship my previous ex used to watch porn and I didn’t got jealous. I watched and watch porn too sometimes. The thing is that I left him and Im staying on my previous ex house which is currently unoccupied since he travels a lot due to work. I told him about my breakup and he offered me to stay but I do think he did it because he still has hopes of going back together. I didn’t want to bother my family with my issues and since I didn’t knew where to stay I went to my previous ex house.I think this was a stupid decision, I used to think that I still have feelings for my previous ex , but know that I am at his house I just keep thinking about going back to my recent ex , forgave him and start all over, without getting all this stupid porn paranoia. I know he quit porn but I just don’t want to prohibit it from him, but I don’t know how to do this, without getting so jealous and insecure. I am confused, did I just leave the love of my life because of porn jealousy? I have to add that our sex life was amazing and we had a lot of sex...I don’t know why I couldn’t get over the past of him liying to me...almost all guys watch porn and also me, why this fucked up my relationship? :(
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My day...today...misplaced my debit card...didn't realize it until I got to the register after shopping to a full cart. Used a different debit card and pulled apart everything looking for missing debit card before I left parking lot. Got home, dropped keys. So now I have a missing debit card, missing keys. A full cartload to unload and put away. I got everything put away.Dumped purse for a...
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I don't really know how to label this but I having a rough week and I can't say it's one thing.... I have a lot on my plate which is nothing new and I try to cope in many positive ways and do but I still have my moments.My kids more so my daughters talk to me about everything which I know it's cause of comfort and we are close.... however I really struggle with the venting about their dad which...
Once you figure out what is missing, that is where you will find the key to help you move through this situation.
There are a lot of things happening, and the first common factor is what you've mentioned. It is not the only common factor.
Best wishes.