I'm sorry it is getting worse for you. You certainly do not deserve to be going through all you do with your ex. I am actually not surprised that you have taken all your stress and created vomiting episodes. The metaphysical reason for vomiting is "A violent rejection of thoughts and ideas". Your ex has such a hold on you that you are literally throwing him up every chance you get. I am not sure if that makes sense to you but if it does there is a way to change this. It will be with your thinking.

Try telling yourself often that food is nourishment that you need to live. And you DESERVE to live. Then you would eat small portions (maybe a cracker) letting yourself know that you deserve the nourishment and that you deserve to keep it in you. Since this only just started recently hopefully it will not take long to reverse. But it is super important to keep the focus on you and not on him. All statements will be 'I' statements. I deserve to live. I deserve to be nourished. I deserve to be free. I deserve to be healthy.

I do hope you are feeling better soon.

I am so sorry you are having such a hard time.

For me, anxiety is often a response to feeling like I don't have very much control over my life. An ex can certainly cause those "out of control" feelings.

I agree with LE on the metaphysical rejection symbolized through being sick. I wonder if you can in some way find your voice and stand up for yourself if it would help.

For me, getting involved with other women going through a similar situation helped a great deal. Also getting into a fun women's group where we watch movies and have a pot luck helps a lot.

You get to make the decisions you want about your life.

I hope things get better.

I think you're probably experiencing stomach issues brought on by the anxiety. When I was younger I'd go through stretches similar to that where I'd feel so bloated and sick after eating normally and I'd have to vomit.

Try to eat something small and light and take your time eating it. Instead of 2-3 big meals try 4-5 smaller meals and see if that helps.

This happend to me recently, without the puking. I jsut had no appetite. I stopped taking my ssri and developed horrible side effects. My stress level was thru the roof 24/7. The only thing that calmed me down was taking a half a xanax. But after a few days I was able to eat finally. I just started with small meals. Like popsicles and special k shakes. But its been like 2 weeks and im feeling alot better. If there is anything that you can do to lower your stress level, even just like simple deep breathing excercies. I jsut started 2 weeks ago and after 5 minutes of laying down deep breathing it helped me relax a little.

But just try and get anything down, even if its just a popsicle or jello. Your appetite will eventually come back. you will eventually be so hungry that you will want to eat a full meal.

I have been through this! My stomach gets in knots and I feel too sick to eat sometimes. I find it helps to drink herbal tea. Tea with ginger helps settle your stomach. Peppermint is good, too, to calm anxiety and to settle your stomach. Sit and watch some sitcoms and sip some peppermint tea and try to eat some saltines and see if that makes you feel any better.

Yep, no doubt our stress can mirror itself in bodily functions. I have often reminded myself that mental pain can and will show itself in physical ways as well.
It is very very strange and a new symptom for me. Getting new symptoms stresses me out even more then.
I panic when new symptoms show and then I try to make sense of the new symptoms with research. Often mental health issues will merely cause these though.