Mmmmm...you know that is not a good idea, how about TV?

No ,not lately.I think my 4 legged critters are happy that Iam not drinking anymore.They all have smiles now. But why dont you wrap up a al-lon book for him as a gift.

No ,not lately.I think my 4 legged critters are happy that Iam not drinking anymore.They all have smiles now. But why dont you wrap up a al-lon book for him as a gift.

Sorry for imposing but I just thought it was kinda cute! I am now drunk

You are NOW drunk?
That's VERY sad.
I'm going to add an idiodic story to your original post....
My marriage was falling apart my 12th year of sobriety while my husband kept drinking every day.
ME~If it takes me to start drinking to save this marriage, then that's what I'm going to do.
HIM~SILENCE

I TOLD you. IDIOTIC and I thanked him for all the NO SUPPORT and left him.

I always KNEW alcoholism was a very selfish disease but that conversation took the cake.

Yes. I am NOW drunk. Thanks, in part, to this thread that I posted. My husband is SO supportive but didn't quite get it. I really resent the whole idea that everyone is in an abusive relationship if their partners "don't quite get it". I didn't have any "withdrawal symptoms" and it's his birthday. My dad told me that AA had no 'sense of humor' and that he just wanted a little levity to help him through.
Sorry, I guess I go back to 0 days sober.

That makes me SO sad because it's YOU that is going to be sad that you drank again, not anybody else.
It's YOU that you are letting down.
BUT....there IS tomorrow.

No bs, you're drunk cause you decided to get that way, can't blame anyone else for your bs.It's not there responsibility to "get it" it's you're disease and you're responsiblity.And by the way AA has a great sense of humor, at least the meetings I go too.This poste is rather sad,good luck to you.

roser, I hope that my reply didnt hurt your feelings, because it wasnt ment to do that.I live alone and only have 6 dogs and 3 cats. and iam sure that they are happy that I am happy and sober. And I thought that you were concern about staying sober.I have found that when others want to judge me on my old drinking habits I like to try to educate them with a book on al-lon. No harm was intended. I am sorry.Best of Luck.

5dog~I think Roser hurt her OWN feelings by drinking tonight. :(
YOU had nothing to do with it.

4mytasha I just wanted her to know. And thank you

my husband drinks everyday. It is not for me to say if he has a problem or not. I KNOW i have one. He and i have a understanding that if i say i'm going to a meeting or just going to bed early ther are no questions asked. I hope you make it back to day one....alive

I would come across this situation with freinds and family.I had to snap out of feeling abandoned.I had to stop thinking anybody owed me anything.

From my point of veiw I still owe them for all the drama I caused.

I asked my friends why they were so stand offish.The answer was, "we don't have a deploma in counsiling",and "we are not alcoholics".

I became resentful and angry.I would tell them where to go when they wanted help.This did not work,it only added to the problem I had.

I had to get together with other alcoholics.I had to find people who understood my need to stay sober for 24 hours.

I could not give up on myself because my feelings were hurt.

No one makes me angry and resentful I make myself this way.

Thanks for sharing roser.

I see you can do it,I know it is hard,please try again.Don't give up,you are worth the effort.Life sober is the better choice.

Sorry guys! I'm back but not feeling the remorse that, I'm sure, I should feel. I'll try again tomorrow. Thanks for all your feedback.

Your a real trooper roser,an inspiration to others I am sure.

You are not on day zero in my book.I don't count I just stay sober for 24 hours.