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Help! I got so angry at my dogs this morning i wanted to kill one of them. (i would never do that but for a moment, i wanted to). I didnt hurt them or anything, other then yell at the top of my lungs at them. The one dog has always been a behavior problem. She pee'd on the floor 3 times this week. i think they are nervous cause i have contractors coming in to fix the place up, and i had a big garage sale this weekend. so, i think they thought i was leaving or something. Not sure but... i am SO sick of them pissing on the floor. i give them lots of attention so they wont do that, and then when i dont pay them enough attention, or maybe because they are nervous, they pee on the floor. And since it was not a large amount of pee, i can tell its not because i didnt let them out. Its either rebelliousness or nervousness. either way i am too frustrated with all my own current problems to deal with it. That is why i lost my temper this morning. And when i did lose my temper and yelled at them, that is why they were scared and wouldnt listen to me. I guess the problem is i want to be in control of them. i know step one. But when i tried to move the one dog, she attempted to snap at me. it is the second time she has tried that in the past year. she is now almost 12 years old. i dont know that i can tolerate this behavior. it infuriates me. i am so angry right now. i put her in the laundry room and closed the door. God she frustrates the hell out of me. i was thinking about possibly putting her to sleep, or dunmping her off at a shelter. I KNOW thats terrible, and i couldnt EVER do that, but she is making me crazy. i cant cope!!! i dont know what to do!!! Please help!!!
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