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Getting more done

MHudson
MHudson

I know it's only been a few days, but yesteray morning and this morning, I noticed that I was able to get much more done than usual, in much less time, and with a better attitude.  I never drank every night, but I certainly drank often enough that I recognize the kind of morning I can expect.  I was never so hung over that I couldn't function, but I was often sluggish and unmotivated.  I got through the day, but often didn't accomplish what I 'd hoped to.  Maybe my focus on stopping for good is the reason that this was a bit more noticable than usual, but whatever the reason, it felt good, and this is how I'd like all mornings to be. Thanks for listening. : )

Shiney
Shiney
great to hear, I found that I was so much more clear-headed as time went on, my memory improved & had a much better outlook on life - I didn't hold grudges, and didn't react like I used to when I was drinking. I used to be a snappy, argumentative nutcase, now I am just chilled.
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
That is nothing short of a miracle! You are blessed!

I remember when I quit drinking, I had horrible feelings of loss and isolation which no pill could cure. It was without a doubt, the toughest stretch of my recovery. Without the support I had, I never would have made it.

Whenever you get a craving, think about how good you feel right now and ask yourself how bad do I want to erase that good feeling and replace it with being sluggish and unmotivated.......Then you will know what to do.

Congrations on your recovery and God Bless
Kevin105
Kevin105
Congrats and thank you for sharing this wonderful story!
finallyawakenow
finallyawakenow
I like what you said about not starting too many changes. I see my recovery as one change or shift; where I take care of myself. For me, I found it a relief to tell myself that I will never let a single drop pass my lips again. That part of my life is over and I had enough of it. That's great that you are seeing a similar thing.
I love my clear mind. I was always bad with names and now I want to remember them. It's like I didn't care enough before which is kinda sad.
For me it's like Christmas morning everyday. A gift I give myself.
MHudson
MHudson
I don't want to erase the good feeling that I have now. I've done it many times in the past (which boggles my mind), but I'm hopeful that things will be different this time. I know that slamming my hand in a draw repeatedly will hurt, and I don't do that. I realize there's a temporary "pay-off" with alcohol, but I know oh too well that there's a hefty price to pay.

I'm viewing the fact that I joined this group as message to me, from me, that it's time do put drinking behind me once and for all, and, as the best Christmas present possible. Thank you all, and have a wonderful day.
MHudson
MHudson
PS - On a clear morning, coffee even tastes better.
itsabouttime
itsabouttime
This is great! Congratulations! I also noticed that clear mind and productivity as my sobriety progressed... it gets better and better. ;-).
FredrickShurmers
FredrickShurmers
Much more done in much less time is very interesting to me. Did you do anything differently. Yesterday, I didn't get all that I wanted to do done and before I knew it, the day was almost over. Today there are things I kind of want to do, but me thinking about them is making it seem like time is flying by and them being done is being put into jeopardy. As a walking, talking, and breathing human being though, thinking is a requirement for survival correct?

Forget that question. I am happy to hear that you had a productive and great day yesterday, keep doing what works!
MHudson
MHudson
I don't mind answering. I think waking up for quite a few mornings in a row with a clear head, and no regrets about drinking the day before gets the day off to a much better start. That in turn keeps me more motivated, and organized. I'm sure I could have done more, but I was pleased with what I accomplished, and even more pleased with the fact that I spent no time lamenting the previous evening's choices. I'm also making a conscious effort to be mindful of the fact that tomorrow's another day, and most of what doesn't get done can be put on my next to-do list.
Shiney
Shiney
I always say to myself ' will I or someone die if I don't get so and so done" - the answer is usually 'no' , so if I do it today, tomorrow or whenever, it's all good!
finallyawakenow
finallyawakenow
A HUGE part of being sober and getting more things done is that I can let life flow smoother. I used to second guess myself a lot more and things just seem easier now. I am finding that resistance I create is the big roadblock, not doing the thing itself. A perfect example is my gardening. If I come out and start thinking about all the work not as much gets done as when I just start and let my experience take care of guiding my hands. I'm sure there's some Zen poem about this, lol
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