When do I know it's ok to start a family. My husband and I really want to start a family but I am scared I will return to my drinking at some point in the pregnancy. So do I wait until I find a magic moment in my recovery where I feel it would ok to get pregnant or do I go ahead and get pregnant and pray that God helps me through those difficult times and staying sober.
Today I am 45 days sober. Not sure if I can stay sober for 9 months with a baby inside me. I know I need to trust myself and pray for help.
Thanks for listening.
My husband is an alcoholic but has acknowledged it (first step). He will confirm that he needs my help to help him limit his drinking (but doesn’t want anything to do with professional help). His pay checks go into my account... his savings money is accumulated and accounted for through my bank account. He has a gift card that I refill every week for Subway, Tim Hortons, Pizza Pizza, A&W,...
I want to quit but the shakes are unbearable. I'm trying to just drink beer today. But will this work? I am starting a new job Monday, but by 2 or 3pm I can't even write my name. Any suggestions?