Alcoholism Support Group
Alcoholism is the continued consumption of alcoholic beverages, even when it is negatively affecting your health, work, relationships and life. If you think alcohol is causing you to lose control, it's time to seek help. Our group is a safe place to vent, check in, get back up if you fall, and reach sobriety.

bobinmaine
I had been cruising right along in my sobriety for 4 plus years when my wife got a letter from a childhood friend. In fact, I took it out of the mailbox and when I looked at the return address, I knew it was someone she previously had feelings for.
During my drug and drinking days, I probably would have ripped up the letter and thrown it away. But living my life by the 12 steps or, at least trying to, has taught me to be honest and to do the right thing. So I gave her the letter. She read it and gave him a call. That was about 3 months ago. They have since seen each other twice, made mad passionate love both together and over the phone, and so now we are getting a divorce, and they plan on getting married!
I am sure it will be a messy one because she doesn't want to part with anything. She drove down to Conneticut today to be with him and took the car so now I have to way to get to my AA meeting tomorrow.
She asked me before she left, if I regretted giving her that letter and I said, "Nope! Not one bit! It was the right thing to do and I did it!"
Only now, I seem to be paying a big price for my honesty :(
During my drug and drinking days, I probably would have ripped up the letter and thrown it away. But living my life by the 12 steps or, at least trying to, has taught me to be honest and to do the right thing. So I gave her the letter. She read it and gave him a call. That was about 3 months ago. They have since seen each other twice, made mad passionate love both together and over the phone, and so now we are getting a divorce, and they plan on getting married!
I am sure it will be a messy one because she doesn't want to part with anything. She drove down to Conneticut today to be with him and took the car so now I have to way to get to my AA meeting tomorrow.
She asked me before she left, if I regretted giving her that letter and I said, "Nope! Not one bit! It was the right thing to do and I did it!"
Only now, I seem to be paying a big price for my honesty :(
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You should NOT let her get away with this. It is bullshit.
I'd move out
just my advice.......your heart may be in the right place.....when it comes down to it people will feed off you like a maggot.
walk away in the knowing your conscience is clear.
peace