Adoption Support Group
Adoption is the legal act of permanently placing a child with a parent or parents other than the birth parents. Whether you are looking to adopt, putting your child up for adoption, parenting an adopted child, or just thinking about it, this is the place to discuss.
Your friend,
Kathryn
The USENET was a network that set up "groups" or discussion lists, where people could get together on-line (more like just by e-mail) and discuss any topic. One of these USENET groups was (and still is) alt.adoption for adoptess to discuss issues. Others, like alt.adoptive.parenting are for adoptive couples (or single parents).
Anyway, there are now many ways to interact with USENET groups, inclduing going through GOOGLE:
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.adoption/topics
The alt.adoption group has been around for more than 20 years, and some of the "regulars" there can surely point you to all sorts of places for face to face contact and support, as well as other on line resources.