dontdeservethis
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- I know Mother's day was a difficult time to get over, but I was wondering if the Dads have a tough time on Father's day, or do they just shrug it all off?My DH is way more upset than he ever lets on, and I don't know if it's better or worse to talk...
- What do you do that helps you cope?Sometimes I'll shop online, sometimes I'll come here and read posts, sometimes I'll clean and organize.So I'm curious what do you do?
- This is addressed to those of you who have moved to get away from your EK's.Do you have any advice or regrets that you could share for those of us who are considering such a move? I would like to move to a nearby city but I want to do it for the...
- This is addressed to those of you who have moved to get away from your EK's.Do you have any advice or regrets that you could share for those of us who are considering such a move? I would like to move to a nearby city but I want to do it for the...
- While I'm fretting, worrying, and twisting myself up in knots, I have to remember that ED is off having a good time with her fake family and friends not even giving us a second thought.To me, I'm devastated, to her, she's oblivious to anything...
- Usually I deal with this estrangement OK, but not today. ED was in town as she is every weekend to see her bf, and by the very definition of being estranged, of course we didn't hear from her.She blames me for stuff that just didn't happen, and I...
- Usually I deal with this estrangement OK, but not today. ED was in town as she is every weekend to see her bf, and by the very definition of being estranged, of course we didn't hear from her.She blames me for stuff that just didn't happen, and I...
- My one final hope that I'm holding out (but not by much) is that when my ED gets older she will value what she had in us (DH and I).Now I'm thinking that's a stretch, but I was kind of hoping that as life kicks her butt maybe she would come to...
- It was kind of hard, but I decided the only way to focus on DH and I and moving forward, was to let go of the past and stop looking at ED's pages. I used to look just to see when she was going to be in town, and to see if she was alright. But idk...
- I've decided to start the New Year with happy thoughts.Do you have any that you can share? Thoughts, quotes, sayings, anything to brighten the day.My goal today is to do just one thing for fun, maybe start that basket weaving kit I bought a few...
- I'm going to try to tell a 'long story short' version here. ED lives in a nearby town and had broken up with her BF a little over a year ago. We took in her dog and fell in love with it. She's gotten back with her BF and is in town for the...
- For so long now DH was defending ED's actions (or more accurately, inactions). Well to make a long story very short, this past 'episode' he's finally taken off the rose colored glasses and seen what I've been trying to say.ED has a BF who has made...
- I feel like I've been kicked in the stomach! (I know I have no right to feel this)My ED has a penchant for picking her friends from the gutter so that she can tower over them.Her last BF was no exception and when they broke up this time last year I...
- A common trait with a lot of EC stories (mine included) is that the EC creates a spider web of twisted/false memories. Things that NEVER happened they've spun into fantastic stories and told people.My question is, should we try to defend ourselves...
- My ED has estranged me twice over the last ten years or so for approximately 2 to 3 years each time. This past go round when she needed my help and tried to get close, I did what she needed, but kept my emotional distance. I couldn't help it and was...