richardfromnyc
Status: Completed Writing How to Deal with Estrangement/Depression. Available at http://amzn.to/20GrQib . Thanks!
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- Hi All,I thought I would just write a brief review of a successful meet that I recently had with an EC.He had told me not to contact him by phone, email or text.He was not interested.I initially went down the path of depression to the point of...
- Have you ever wondered why no one seems to care about the agony of your estrangement?The estrangers for sure do not seem to care about the pain caused by estrangement since they are the ones doing the estranging.But even other friends, family, have...
- I wish I had said that mantra in my head over and over, thousands of times when I first encountered the hell of estrangment 14 years ago:You Need to Know There is More to Estrangement than YouYou Need to Know There is More to Estrangement than...
- Imagine that you created a vineyard, miles and miles of beautiful grapes on their trestles, producing exquisite wine...One day, a catastrophe struck which destroyed your vineyard...The land was parched with no fruits left....No wine...Empty and...
- Just wondered based on your own anecdotal evidence, do you think that estrangements are an American phenomenon?If yes, what is it about American culture that might feed estrangements?Has it become an expected part of being hip, cool, growing up when...
- Have you had the experience of getting together with any of your ec?What do you talk about?How awkward is it?How to not make it awkward, any ideas?Are pictures a good idea or not?What if they say no to a picture?It is a strange world to even be...
- Just wondered if anyone else here has dealt with estrangement from one or both of your parents? Thanks, Richard
- Hi All,You have been my support group for many years.Tens if not hundreds of times I have written to you in very challenging moments, as we have all experienced, wondering if I actually existed, due to the shock of estrangement.I cried, mourned,...
- Ha, I know how ridiculous this might sound.Deadlift to lift the nightmare of estrangement?Can deadlifting actually make a difference?I say yes!Deadlifting can have a huge impact, not just physically on your body, but for your mind as well.Of course,...
- Misery is unmet expectations.The opposite is true as well, happiness, tranquility is when all your expectations are met or when there are no expectations.I want to suggest applying this natural law between the sun and the moon to ourselves.The moon...
- Throwing out something that I have not seen spoken about much here.And doing so because a number of topics and threads speak about how the ek just dont like us or our assumption is that they do not like us.I would like to challenge that notion and...
- I want to write about power today because I have experienced several mind bending conversations recently with children that I have reconnected with and I am still sorting through, attempting to process and want to crystallize what is working so that...
- Morning all,I am trying to focus on the one, clear thing that I can work on today that will have the most impact for success, feeling good, making progress.So, I thought that I would ask all of you what your focus will be on today?For me, my one...
- Hello All,I just want to say thank you to everyone who has been supportive to me in the past.Thanks for your care and kindness.I am grateful to you all.I know that there were some times when I saw no way out and saw no path in front of me.Nothing is...
- What if your EC came back into your life?Reached out to you to put the past in the past and move forward?How would you react?How would you be a mother or father again after such a long break?What do you say, talk about, do?I ask because it happened...