Would you date again?

Someone asked me this question today.  All I could say was that I wasn't ready and don't know that I ever will be.  I'm still married in my mind.  The love of my life may be gone, but he still lives in my heart and will forever.  I sometimes miss companionship, but it doesn't last for long.  It's so lonely here in the house sometimes, but the solitude suits me right now.  I miss Gene every moment of everyday.  The tears flow as I write this.  No one really understands what I'm going through and I don't expect them to.  Just to be there when I need them is all I can ask for right now.

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feliciac
feliciac

Well, I\'m always here for you. As far as the dating thing. Shoot, I\'m 46 and single and never married and I don\'t want to date. Now where my mom met her new husband after being alone for 20 years they started out as friends and just really enjoyed eachother\'s company. Neither one of them knew how it happened but they just fell in love. Both are widowed. But like I said, my mom was alone for 20 years. So, is it fair to ask that question...all I can say is none of us know what tomorrow will bring.