Trait 5: We live life from the viewpoint of victims and are attracted by the weakness

Trait 5: We live life from the viewpoint of victims and are attracted by the weakness in our love and friendship relationships.

This one gets me... I don't feel like I LIVE life from the viewpoint of a victim, only because I didn't realize having an alcoholic father and a disfunctional family made me one... I feel like I might ahve things in my life that have a victim ora to it, but I don't feel like I LIVE that way. 

I do have some pity party me moments, I chalked that up to my depression and anxiety. Moments when things get too hard for me mentally and I feel like screaming LOUDLY!

I am not sure about the "weakness in our love and friendship"s... I don't think I have evaluated my friendships and I have been with my husband since I was 16 so, I obviously wouldn't know of any other "love" relationships! 

I'll keep this trait in my back pocket to really focus and see if there is more to my thought process? Could just be my current mood that makes me feel like this doesn't apply very much?? 

To be revisited! :D