TRADING UP...
As for my mood for this post... slightly cranky. LOL
I have observed with ALL men, they do seem to have their focus where their God did intend... wanking, sports, food (or rather what will be made for them) Stbx s list varies from many I have chatted with here. But usually then the lists include sex (or simply wanking off themselves) with or without a woman.
I was recently reminded that they are all very INTRIGUED by boobs and asses. (The bigger the better it seems is the concensus) I recently mentioned to my studmuffin a friend did share she just discovered she is a DDD. That explained her difficulty in finding good fitting clothes. While I did tell her this was good for her, she had to chuckle as I mentioned she did put a damper on my day. (AS it is all I can do to fill a freakon C! haha) This did intrigue him and he wanted to see a pic of course (strictly g rated)
I neglected to tell him of a coworker I worked with years ago who had been properly measured in a lingerie shop . She wanted me to come with her and get fitted way back then. She was a KKK. (A TRIPLE K, not a clanner) I mentioned this to my current boss some time back and now EVERY DAY I have to be quizzed on and hear about Shirley's triple Ks)
He asked if I told SM about the triple Ks. I said, hell no...it is bad enough I have to hear about them all day here from you.
I do think since I seem to get no help or affection and now can be so easily replaced with their own willing hand or a porn clip or intriguing photo.... I will give em all up for a bad idea. Haha
I am saving my pennies for a Sybian. LOL
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The grass is always greener. Those who have complain about tight uncomfortable clothes or back aches. Honestly I don't need triples... but what I wouldn't give to be at least a D. :(
Why D’s? I find C’s rather nice. I’m just curious.
Well thank you. In a society where it seems there is never enough, it feels like my Cs are like cute cantaloupes, while those Ds are more divine, devourable and demanding of all the attention they do receive.
Still disillusioned with the other half of the species. :(
So sorry. There are some of us out there that aren't concerned with breast size. Hope you find someone to your liking.
Is ok. Actually finding this is not just isolated with the men... Women can be the same way. More interested in looks or what they can get out of a "situation" or "relationship" . Enough disappointment and disillusionment to go around.
I still wish for the perfect world where people do give a damn. :(
You know, besides what you said about what some women are interested in men, one thing that is really getting bad is for many women Size Does Matter. It's happening more with the under 40 group. Yes, I wish more people gave a damn too!
I think people like what they like, independent of gender. It’s ok to have preferences and be attracted to what one is attracted to. I don’t think it means a person is automatically shallow or that they don’t care. Attraction, what is pleasing to someone, is not a personal insult. To me it’s the same as preferring certain personality types.
The minute we make it personal you kind of loose perspective that attraction and what people like is an individual thing and not really about you. I am a 54 woman and penis size has always kind of matter to me. That’s about me, not about dudes who happen to have small penises.
I think what’s really at play ismore about our own insecurities with ourselves. I mean logically if all anyone wanted was big boobs, all the A and B cup women of the world would be dateless, cloistered or shunned.
I think hanging out on social media too much looking at images of the young and beautiful (mostly altered or filtered images I suspect) makes it seem like all people want are certain things or skews our thinking about ourselves. Be happy with who you are and what you have independent of preconceived notions of what others want or desired. If someone is not pleased with your goods, that person is not for you, that’s all.
Yes, social media and porn are the cause of theses attitudes. When a relationship is based on looks, breast size, or penis size, that’s sad. I know there are people like that and I find that kind of person shallow. Those are the relationships that don’t last. With that kind of attitude about what’s important about the person you're in a relationship with, I say, don’t get married. If children are involved, they’re the ones who get hurt the most.
@rmb I am thinking maybe you are right. It is more about personal preference and we all are entitled and do kind of do that. That being said, there still are those who (as emptyshell says) are shallow. These are the ones who will not even speak to or bother unless you are their perfect Barbie (or Ken)'
And you are probably also right about it being more about our own insecurities. I grew up listening to the nasty digs of those not so perfect or gorgeous from 2 very dysfunctional males. They never aimed their digs at me (well 1 didn't ) but speaking in general about others who I did share some similarities... I DID take it personally. Because of that, I would bend over backwards to give ALL people a fair shot and try not to judge the book by its cover. (If I think about it, it is this same insecurity that I do allow to creep back up on me from time to time. The one that pulls me back into past funks. And the one who now puts doubts back into my mind when I have gotten far more positive and encouraging thoughts and feedback from those who I know now. )
If I do admit it, I am to the point I know who I am, my strengths , weaknesses, attributes and was becoming content and satisfied. Unfortunately, I am human (who knew? lol) and when others do drool or become "intrigued" by another with what I feel I lack, a bit of the green eyed monster does creep in. I do always wish the grass were greener.
Everyday I look in the mirror and my crows feet seem a little deeper, my boobs seem a little saggier, my ass wider,and my cellulite seems to be spreading like a fungus. But it’s who I am and I’ll be damned if it’s not a privilege to sit in my own skin and be ok with it. I feel like I’ve earned the right to just look like a normal woman.
Once I hit 50, it seemed like no one really notices you any more. I mean you kind of become invisible. But in a lot of ways it’s freeing because if no one is paying attention, it’s a bit of a relief. It’s freeing because you can just be yourself.
Those two male who made remarks? You know they are just kind of unintelligent pigs.
I mean people aren’t like that unless there is something wrong with them. Don’t base your idea of what men want on a couple of dopes.
I get growing up in a messed up house with a messed up family. I saw and heard some crazy things myself. I get how it can affect your self worth and self esteem. But we are women now, strong intelligent women and create our own ideas about who we are. The past has a funny way of trying to convince you that you are still that girl. Don’t listen.
Thank you . :)
@rmb and @veggiequeen, I understand what you are saying. Be yourself and love yourself. Yes, as you get older, wrinkles and sagging set in and it seems no one is interested in you. Yes, I like to look at younger women, but I also like looking at the women who are getting wrinkles and starting to sag. To me, you're getting better with age. I would rather spend time with women like you. You have experienced life and would be more interesting to talk to. I think of Steely Dan's song, "Hey 19". The words, "we have nothing in common", says it all. As you said rmb, be who you are.
Veggiequeen, no one should be made fun of. Those are the jerks you don't let bother you. I didn't like guys who made fun of girls or guys because of their looks. It's cruel and no one deserves it.
Be yourselves ladies. There are some of us older guys who still like looking at ladies over 50 .... and not because I'm an old fart! LOL!
LOL. :)
there are much cheaper reliable comparable to Sybians... just saying