The Problem with her is....

I think I'm going to start a new list of entries called "the problem with her is"  like a series of shit that really gets on my nerves about other people I have to deal with on a daily or at least a weekly basis.  It may not coincide with Buddhist thought altogether, but it sure as hell gives me some relief to vent and put into words what it is that is bugging the sam hell out of me on a pretty much daily or at least weekly basis. 
I'll start with AK.  AK is an intern here where I work.  AK is very obese, but has health issues, I would never even cared about her obesity had she not stepped all over me for not being Christian,  I'll get to that.  She has been overtly friendly throughout her time here, and I thought she was someone with a brain.  She is still someone with a brain, just not someone who is as socially alert as I once thought.  Problem with her is....
Today she came in my office and was making small talk and asked me if I had a facebook page.  I told her I did but that I use a different name because I am not a Christian I am Buddhist.  she said she kind of thought that.  She said she was a Christian and seemed a little defensive, but then added that she would still pray for me everyday and that she still loved me even though I was not a Christian.  
OKAY,  you love me EVEN though I'm not a Christian, or you love me EVEN though I'm not white,  or you love me EVEN though I'm not skinny, or the list of you love me EVEN though's could go on and on, but you get the point,  she's basically saying that there is something unlovable about me, but she is doing me a favor by loving me anyway.  NICE.  I could have looked at her and said I love you even though you're not skinny, even though you're not pretty, and even though you are not being appropriate right now.
 
 

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bridgie101
bridgie101

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