Still feeling empty

Oh how much I'm missing Gene right now.  I think of all the things I've been through since he died and can't believe I've gotten this far.  Now I need work done to my car and I don't know how to handle it all.  Today is an especially bad day and I feel so empty inside knowing I'll never hold my wonderful man in my arms again.  I can't even go into our old bedroom without falling apart.  Today I laid down on his side of the bed and just fell apart.  When will things get better.  When will the emptiness go away.  Right now I feel like it never will.

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deleted_user
deleted_user

\"post holidays\" seem so much harder than \"pre holidays\". I really know how you are feeling and I am so sorry that we are going through this. Their strength, their love, their companionship, friendship...I could go on and on, I miss it all. You need to fall apart so just do it and know that there are others doing the same thing. Peace and hugs to you Carol, Sandy
feliciac
feliciac

I know words can not make you feel better but know I love you and am thinking of you....xoxoxoxo
deleted_user
deleted_user

It\'s been a little over 2 months since my James passed away, and it hasn\'t gotten much easier. I\'m not a complete mess like I was in the beginning, but sometimes the silliest things bring on the tears for me. Like today...I was shopping and passed by the mens deoderant and almost lost it. Sometimes I can cry at the drop of a hat. They say crying heals the heart so cry when you need to.
Hugs,
Jean