One Year nine and ten months

Sinza makes one year and 10 months tomorrow. I did something this month that I feel was a big achievement for us. I participated in the Carly Marie Project Heal on facebook, where we posted something on a theme everyday about Pregnancy, stillbirth and infant loss..whereas some people were skeptical about it in the beginning, it turned out to be a wonderful learning and inspiring experience for so many. I got the opportunity to post my truth of my stillbirth experience. Most of all I got to explain to others that Sinza is my daughter, my dead daughter, yet my daughter still. That death is something that happened to her, but it does not define her. I also got lots of positive feedback, people that I didnt know were suffering silently reached out, people gave my contacts as a potential support person to those who were new to this experience, and many felt educated.
Below is a message I got from my junior school classmate, who referred her friend Gracey to me, Gracey recently had a still born son Aaron
"Hi. Gracey says u contacted her. Thx for the help and thx again for the notes u used to post.. they were very insightful because I was honestly ignorant before. Take care.."
Isn't that awesome Sinza? Happy 1y10m anniversary my sweetheart!