not raining on my parade
I've realized that baby steps are better than no steps. I move on no matter what. I love my life. I really do. Could it be better? Of course. Would I change the major parts? Hell no.
Cutting loose from exass was best move I ever made. Waiting for his life to catch up with his bad choices is entertainment. Do I think he's changed? Hell no again.
I believe, or maybe feel deep in my bones, that he has already resorted back to the man I know. Married or not, his stripes won't ever change. Do I feel sorry for his wife? No because they both were cheating on their spouses and broke up 2 families. What goes around comes around. Maybe a little slow at times but it will catch up on him. I was privy to a "possible" liaison with a previous co-worker. Can I prove it? Probably not. But circumstances point that way. Hmmm He's parked at her work place. His truck is there but he isn't? You can figure it out from there.
Grandson is growing like a weed. I so enjoy all the time with him. He's my everything.
I had blow-up with both sons. It happens. I let it build and build til I explode. We all have our say then we are fine again. They know if I go off then it's a bad day, week, month. They forget mama isn't young and invincible or capable of doing it all. I do need help here and there. I try to let them lead their lives in their homes because I know how hard it is to work and keep up your homes. They know they need to pop over and help me every now and then. I would and have for them. I adore my sons. They turned into awesome men. So very proud of them.
I will try to get on here more often. This group was my life preserver before and during the divorce. It proves to me that after the divorce I need it more.
Happy days to all and S-M-I-L-E!!!!
Cutting loose from exass was best move I ever made. Waiting for his life to catch up with his bad choices is entertainment. Do I think he's changed? Hell no again.
I believe, or maybe feel deep in my bones, that he has already resorted back to the man I know. Married or not, his stripes won't ever change. Do I feel sorry for his wife? No because they both were cheating on their spouses and broke up 2 families. What goes around comes around. Maybe a little slow at times but it will catch up on him. I was privy to a "possible" liaison with a previous co-worker. Can I prove it? Probably not. But circumstances point that way. Hmmm He's parked at her work place. His truck is there but he isn't? You can figure it out from there.
Grandson is growing like a weed. I so enjoy all the time with him. He's my everything.
I had blow-up with both sons. It happens. I let it build and build til I explode. We all have our say then we are fine again. They know if I go off then it's a bad day, week, month. They forget mama isn't young and invincible or capable of doing it all. I do need help here and there. I try to let them lead their lives in their homes because I know how hard it is to work and keep up your homes. They know they need to pop over and help me every now and then. I would and have for them. I adore my sons. They turned into awesome men. So very proud of them.
I will try to get on here more often. This group was my life preserver before and during the divorce. It proves to me that after the divorce I need it more.
Happy days to all and S-M-I-L-E!!!!
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I\'m smiling right back at ya! You\'re so lucky your sons are around to help and that you can blow up at them and then everything\'s ok. If I do that to my daughters, they pull back and I don\'t hear from them, so always have to be happy and accepting of whatever they dish out. Plus, I only have 1 who lives here and her work hours are different from mine, so I rarely see her. sigh
I, too, have a grandson here (open adoption) who, like yours, is my heart and soul. Aren\'t we lucky??
(((Hugs))) glad things are going well.