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so jsut now before carlos left for work he gave me another list of people he came up with. then i noticed his mom didnt put his father or any of his fathers relatives down. carlos then said he doesn't know if his father could come. first that made me upset- i want him to be there. i have never met him, but i guess what happens happens because we dont have control of his eligibilty on getting a vtravel visa for the usa.  i feel gaby is completely disregarding carlos other family. i then told carlos that i dont feel the entire doyle family needs to come- we barely know them and they aren't our family. bottomline we got in an arguement over that. Crhis (carlos' mom's husband) has only been married to Gaby for 3 years and is not carlos' stepfather. All in all, Carlos said "your in a pissy mood and i'm not dealing with this crap.”
Then he told me to give him a kiss goodbye and i said you come here then. He always wants me to get up and give him a kiss. It’s like a command, like I have to do it. I don’t want to be controlled like that. He then said “ i'm leaving. bye".
 
I am beyond upset and cant stop crying. I just cant stop crying and don’t know what to do. I have a crew meeting to go to soon and I don’t give a fuck. I don’t want to go. I don’t want to do anything. It like there was a little ‘honeymoon’ period after leaving reflections, and now its gone.    
 

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deleted_user
deleted_user

What is it with weddings and everybody turning into Bridezillas and I don\'t mean you, I mean everybody. How sad that you never met Carlos\' Dad. Maybe you should just go somewhere and elope.
If Carlos wants a kiss he can get his ass up and get it.
I\'m so sorry, I would be bawling my eyes out too. Yeah those honeymoons always end real quick and every day life moves in way too quickly. I know Carlos is not one for counseling but I think some pre marriage counseling would do you guys good.
tuxedomck
tuxedomck

AMEN! SAME HERE. part of the reason i just dont give a fuck anymore beause we already are married.
ann54
ann54

confused, your already married, is this then a \"formal\" ceremony for other people? weddings are always diasters, fighting all the time. i wouldnt get up to a demand either, bull shit.
tuxedomck
tuxedomck

lol i\'ll message you about the whole situation. i guess i didnt tell you about how we are already married lol