Monday Oct 10th
Finally both funerals are behind me. I am not looking forward to returning to work however. of course the first night we are back he slept in the recliner again. Guess being next to me in the hotel was torture enough. I really try not to let it hurt my feelings but I know it does anyway. that's what always happens though...he sucks me back in...is sweet...and then yanks the rug out from under me. Gee...can't imagine why I am not happier to be home. I miss my Remi...I can't wait til she comes home tonight. the cats really missed me though...they are funny...have not left me alone since we got home yesterday. At least my animals love me :)
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Men are simply from Mars. On Mars they all sleep in recliners. LOL ...while leaving us alone in bed to wonder why.
Take very good care. I hope the week goes well for you.
:-) Patricia
He sounds as though he\'s two different people.
And, Psychologically, he may well be. \"As-if\" personalities are created when life separates us from our authentic inner selves.
To live life, many of us have to become actors in a sense. As a result, with time, we forget to go back to being ourselves and we assume the actor role in life.
This creates a chasm within us. When two people live in the same body, and those two people are from different sides of the track, they\'re going to fight.
He is the truest Gemini I have ever met for sure...and I am not into that stuff lol
There are very valid reasons as to why he has a dualistic nature.
One part of him may be very Narcissistic.
The other part of him very sweet.
Anger gives the illusion of power. If he suffers from characterological anger, he may be this way the remainder of his life and will always use those around him for his Narcissistic supply.
Dr. Jefferey Young states that a Narcissist is built upon four principle modes or personna\'s:
1. A lonely child.
2. A self aggrandizer.
3. A detached self soother.
4. A healthy adult.