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Just feeling lonely. And uncertain about the future. It's not about him ,it's about MY life.
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That\'s the attitude hon!!! It IS about your life!
Get the book Why does he do that? by Lundy Bancroft, so you understand how abusive men work, what\'s behind their behaviour and how to spot the early signs! Learn and educate yourself so you never get into an abusive relationship again! Learn why is it harder to break out of an abusive relationship that break up with a non-abusive partner (due to \'cognitive dissonance\' caused by traumatic bonding - this is in the book too!).
You can do nothing about him as his abusive behaviour is nothing to do with you. You just need to work on you to get yourself better!
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Big hugs and chin up honey!
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