just today

AS I try traveling the Buddhist path I am findng a trial in one of my co-workers.  Her attitude towrards me from the beginning has been snobbish.  I threaten her in some way and there fore she dislikes me.  I have no idea how or why, except that after a few weeks of her being a snotty bitch for no reason  I did scrape my bracelet across her wall just to be bitchy back to her everytime I passed her office one day.  It made a loud grating sound that was properly annoying.  But other than that I have always tried to be pleasant to her, I've even offered to be friendly by asking her questions about things she is interested in, and have tried to have conversations with her before.  Like I said I'm not sure what the threat is, she's very beautiful, so I don't think the dislike is anything due to looks.  I try to eat healthy and excercise and make the best of my looks, while she is more relaxed about her food and excercise may equal taking a walk every now and then with a friend.  She's very social with everyone else, and likes everyone else, well, it appears that way anyhow.  She just seems annoyed anytime I try to speak to her or speak to her friends when she is around.  She has the most horrible laugh at times,  like you know she is being evil and cruel, but not in a way that I would necessarily fault her for as I do that too sometimes.  Honestly, part of me likes her, and the other part feels like nerves on a grater when I hear her laughing,  it's like I can't stand the sound.  But sometimes my laugh is loud too so it's just something on this path of feeling equanamous about everyone that I am struggling with.  Dali Lama says that these people who are trying, that we should be thankful to for giving us a challenge to make us stronger and better and more patient, and not angry.  I don't understand her issues with me, I don't even know how interested I am in knowing what they are anyway, but her coldness is a mystery.  I could always make assumptions, but that would make an "ass" out of "u & me" .  I'm not interested in the relationship enough to go to her and say "by the way, why do you act like a snotty bitch to me?"  Cause in reality, not really something I want to know enough to put that much energy into it, but something I sometimes ponder.