is it too much to ask for

all I want is to find someone who is compatible and will take me for all that I am (good or bad) 


whenever I enter a relationship I devote myself to that person... the problem is... I've never found someone that is just as devoted in trying to be happy... Im sure Im not the only one that is wanting happiness

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misleadingsmile
misleadingsmile

You'll find love in the strangest places...ex. I met my fiancée of 4 years on a suicide thread on Tumblr...we started talking, and just instantly clicked...it was love at first sight (text?)...anyway, the right one is out there for you...stay strong
bridgie101
bridgie101

I think when we are whole we have more to offer, which seems to be a paradox because when we're whole we're less inclined to go looking. The people who are clutching at love are often insecure, which means they can vaccilate from needy to bullying.

that's been my experience; this needy/bullying dichotomy. In a way it's better to meet a man (or woman) who doesn't need you, because then if they're with you it's because they like you for who you are. And also it means they won't take any shit from you. And hopefully won't dish it out...

Time to spend some time on you. Fix you while there's only one of you. Sort out who you are, where you're going, find equilibrium and inner peace. Find out why you are anxious and resolve it. Get to the bottom of who you are, and where you are.

And then I think it'll all start to go quite well.