How can he act like he's the victim to my own brother

ARGH!

My ex has contacted my brother on Tuesday because he cannot get a hold of me.  Yes, I blocked his cell phone number, but there are other ways of contacting me if he really wanted to. Goodness sakes he even has my freaking email address and other contact info. Heck he has been using my friend Megan to "relay messages" between us before. 

But to call my BROTHER of all people?  Then when my brother asks what's going on, he says he doesn't know.  He thinks I'm mad because since he got a new girlfriend, he isn't as "attentive" to me?!  He has no idea why I would be mad. 

How about the telling me I love yous while you told ppl at work you are spending time with your "ex".  Or snuggling with me and holding my hand as you slept the day after you slept with another person.  The same person you told me abt in the car who you are falling for and see a future with... Have the fucking decency to properly end things with me before all of this.  Not keep me around knowing I couldn't move on from you because I believed you loved me.  Literally someone likes you and you dump me.  That not a good reason to be pist? 

How about the fact that even though you literally shattered my heart and I still tried to be friends with you, all you could do was rush to shove your new girlfriend into my face.  I tried to spend time as friends with other friends so we could create some kind of friendship between us after.  But you had no interest.  Instead you wanted to just shove your girlfriend into my face.  She's 20.  She's great with computers.  She lives at her Ex boyfriend's house with his parents.  She speaks many languages.  SHe wanted to sleep with him the first night. Wonderful.  Things your ex girlfriend of 12 years and who is trying so hard to be friends with you wants to hear.  Nope, no.  I said I couldn't. It was too fast to hear about her.  And you shut me out. 

Now you are crying to my brother after 5 months, that you don't know why I'm mad at you?  Seriously?  What the fuck.  BEcause you are less attentive I got mad.  Really?  These are the lies you go spreading around?  Nothing abt you breaking my heart.  Not because as I tried and tried for over a month to be friends with you because I didn't want to lose a 18 year old friendship. But you pushed me out of your life and shut off your phone on me.... I tried to save an 18 year old friendship... tried even when it was killing me. Instead you broke my heart twice.  Once romantically and another as my friend.  It was two seperate heart breaks.  You couldn't come clean about either one of them.

Nope these aren't the reason you gave. Because you were less attentive.  That's what you say like I'm some overly sensitive person?  That's something I have never been accused of my entire life.  I've always been really easy going and non confrontational person.  In fact the main reason my department loves working with me is beacuse I am so easy going and I don't let things get to me.  Less attentive I guess does sound better than I ignored her attempts of being a friend and then I shut my phone off on her.  

Now to play the vicitim of my "oversensitive" nature to my brother?  Seriously?  What oh what is your goal?  Because it obviously isn't to talk to me. Because there is a more direct path to talk to me.  Me.  And why now after 5 months?  No you needed my brother's pity and to be on your side... but why?