He brought her to my house!

I didn't think he could stoop any lower - but I was wrong. He's been bringing his girlfriend to my house during the day to pack his things. The Other Women. How could he. When he texted me saying "they" would be over at 7:00 to get some of his furniture and I asked if he meant the movers. He actually said it would be him, her, and the movers. I lost it.  I don't even know him anymore. How could anyone think that was acceptable to bring the woman he left me for to my house when I wasn't there. I am so hurt. It's like I'm back to the beginning. All the progress I was making - gone. 

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Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary

Hugs, my friend. there is nothing I can say to ease your pain. I would change all the locks as soon as he gets what he wants. Why do you not just put everything in the garage and let him get it from there? Hon, it is an emotional roller coaster ride that you have to hang on for dear life. Start thinking about yourself and be gentle with yourself. Hugs.
kbbcoop77
kbbcoop77

Cold hearted bastard, not sure if legally you can tell him to fuck that nonsense or not, can you have someone there to confirm he's just getting what he's supposed to get? Personally there would be no way I would allow my ex whore to bring her new fuck buddy into my house, someone would end up dead or badly hurt. She's a cheating bitch but she wouldn't stoop that low, she didn't even bring her mother when she was getting shit because she knew that would piss me off even more than I was AND she was leaving me and our daughter so I'm sure there was some guilt but who the hell knows with these crazy narcissists. As soon as you possible can you need to cut him off 100% so you can heal. Our daughter was already in high school so after several months of me being stupid and staying in contact I was finally strong enough to shut her completely out of my life, no texts, emails or calls or NOTHING. It's the best and literally only way to heal and move on. Very hard at first, it's breaking an addiction (we were together 24 years) so it took some serious time to get over it but 2 1/2 years later I'm much better..you'll get there..! Assholes...cheaters suck! Read Chumplady.Com website it's very empowering how to get a life after getting rid of a cheater.