FOR ALL OF US GIRLS WHO SURVIVED AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

This is definitely for us and gives me comfort. I wanted to put it down here because I had a very strong urge to email it to BPDX yesterday when I read it (I heard it on the radio before but couldn't understand properly all the words and reading it made me feel like it was written about my last 2 relationships. Particularly my last relationship with BPDX, as it's still fresh in my mind and heart.) I really wanted to sent it to him cause he said it a lot of times that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him - just like exN used to say it too, yet they both treated me like sh*t. Well, they are the losers because they could have had me but messed it up and now they have no chance in hell ever to be with me again! And they know what they have lost! This is the same for all you girls, we are survivors! Best Thing I Never Had What goes around, comes back around, hey, my baby What goes around, comes back around, hey, my baby, I say What goes around, comes back around, hey, my baby What goes around, comes back around There was a time I thought, thought you did everything right No lies, no wrong, boy I, must have been outta my mind So when I think of the time that I almost loved you You showed your ass and I, I saw the real you Thank God you blew it, thank god I dodged a bullet I'm so over you, so baby good lookin' out. I wanted you bad, I'm so through with that Cause honestly you turned out to be the best thing I never had You turned out to be the best thing I never had And I'm gon' always be the best thing you never had Oh yeah, I bet it sucks to be you right now So sad, you're hurt, boo hoo, oh did you expect me to care You don't deserve my tears, I guess that's why they ain't there When I think that there was a time that I almost loved you You showed your ass and baby yes I saw the real you Thank God you blew it, thank god I dodged a bullet I'm so over you, baby good lookin' out. I wanted you bad, I'm so through with that Cause honestly you turned out to be the best thing I never had I said you turned out to be the best thing I never had And I'll never be the best thing you never had Oh baby I bet it sucks to be you right now I know you want me back It's time to face the facts that I'm the one that's got away Lord knows that it will take another place, another time, another world, another life Thank god I found the good in goodbye I used to want you so bad, I'm so through with that Cause honestly you turned out to be the best thing I never had Oh you turned out to be the best thing I never had And I will always be the best thing you never had Oooh best thing you never had I used to want you so bad, I'm so through with that Cause honestly you turned out to be the best thing I never had Oh you turned out to be the best thing I never had Oooh I will never be the best thing you never had Oh baby, I bet it sucks to be you right now What goes around, comes back around What goes around, comes back around Bet it sucks to be you right now What goes around, comes back around I bet it sucks to be you right now What goes around, comes back around I bet it sucks to be you right now Written by Kenny “Babyface” Edmonds, Antonio Dixon, Patrick “jQue” Smith, Beyonce Knowles, Shea Taylor, Larry Griffin, Jr. and Caleb McCampbell.