Feeling Anxious Today

I am feeling really anxious today.  I have been paying my daughter's insurance bills because I know she can't afford it, and today is the first bill that she is paying herself.  It sounds dumb when I type this - why am I feeling so anxious?  She is 19 - young - but she made the choice to buy the car and now she should have to pay the insurance for it.  Why do I feel so bad about it? I feel responsible for making sure she has enough money to cover it - she only has $5 left in her account now - and of course now I feel like I should put money in her account.  UGH - I am hoping the counselor will help me deal with these feelings today at my appointment.