Family...arrrrrgh!!

So I went to my parents house for a family lunch yesterday. My sisters were there too with their kids. The conversations naturally drifted to kids talk, then when I mentioned my child, everybody immediately clammed up, like she was some sort of embarrassment, a family dirty little secret, and the topic got quickly changed! My sister tells me of a friend of hers that is looking to get married, wonders if i would like to meet up with him??? Did I mention that Sinza was stillborn only two months ago?? And all these said sisters, were there for me in the hospital, but did not turn up for her funeral?? Can I have a family change please??? Nobody gets it, Sinza is dead, true, but she is still my child, and I love her to bits.