Day 4 after the move

Well I actually moved out.  Still can't believe I did it.  It is only day 4 so I am still caught up in the mechanics of it.  Trying to find things and unpack.  The cats were completely traumatized but they seem to be doing better now.  I am not sure how I feel yet, it is all so new.  I have not had any anxiety yet though so that is one good thing. 
We have record setting cold here this morning and I am freezing.  I may have to have maintenance come look at my thermostat...could not get my place above 60 this morning.  No wonder the cats were trying to get under the covers this morning.  BRRR.   HE has been super sweet and helped me so much with this although he says he wants me to come home.  He has not said he will quit drinking though.  I only signed a six month lease so I have time to figure things out without being locked into it for too long.  Mostly just trying to get settled right now.  I guess things will hit me more once I have settled in.
 

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weinere46
weinere46

YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes, call maintinence, till they show up remember you can use your oven for heat but do not leave the apartment with the oven on. Just turn it to 450 and open the door a bit, it wll warm up.
If he really wanted you home then he knows how to do it. Till then enjoy your anxiety free life!!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user

Good on you. I wish you well in your new setup and good luck with your plans. Best wishes. Andrew
1Patriciann
1Patriciann

Take very good care and be gentle with yourself.

((hugs)) and good thoughts shared.
:-) Patricia