Anna
I have a workmate, she used to be a friend, she came to the hospital when i was admitted to deliver my stillborn daughter, she also came for her funeral. A few months later, she came for my Dad's funeral service and his burial. She was a fantastic friend, but all the tragedy she witnessed in my life soon got her to look down on me, as if I was less than...soon she was talking about me behind my back, compalined how my family members died too much for her liking, she couldnt keep up..I found out, and lets just say we are no longer friends. We have to sit in the same tiny office, now she is the workmate from hell, lately she calls up her kids 5 times a day, puts them on lod speaker, just to say "how are my sweeies?"... what she is infact doing is.. she is taunting me..saying look you desperado...normal people like me have living happy healthy babies..unlike you! I dont know what else to do about her, so i wrote about it in my journal....its incredible the wickedness in the world, some people dont know that there is nothing seperating us from them, they are just as vulnerable to becoome "one of us"..but dont tell them that..they wont beleive you!
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Wow.... I am so sorry you are going thru this..... but GOD IS GOOD..... dont pay attention to her...... one day you\'ll be rewarded...... Forgive her.... as she has not lidt a loved one sooo close... like a baby..... keep ur head up... make ur angel baby proud mommy!!!!!!
Hugs ur way,
Eli\'s mommy, Martha
Thanks for saying that Eli\'s mommy, you have used the exact words I read for the bible at Sinza\'s funeral service..Jeremaiah 31:15-16..\"God will reward you\"
Hugs back too..you make Eli proud with your wisdom!
At church today they read 1 Corithians 3:17. And i thought about you right away...... Again i know God will bless you, God will reward you.... Dont let the pitty of ithers make you feel less.... You have angels watching over you. I read in a quote \" You could\'ve giving your daughter the world, but she got heaven instead\" she is safe... she is happy.... time to make her proud everrrryday :-)
I had to come back and look at this post again, because Ann just joined the group of baby loss mothers last week. she had a miscarriage, not the same as a stillbirth, but a real loss too. May we all strive for humility!