datting really isnt working out so simple detached datting isnt working if you dont fancy them  she knows i dont have attachment also trying to live like that just leaves you emotionaly empty its like going shopping  there is no up lifting highit just makes like even more like a swamp  im quite low my ex rang in the end to tell me how great her life is going the call was 3 days late no replys and the reply was all about her  im f cking sunk really fooling myself to much