dreams about old loves  the love of my life as someone said about heri dreamt she was over wieght and nothing like i remembered . thought wow is that her shes not even my type anymore  this was a dream based on me knowing the 20 year old girl i thought wounder full is now 40   then i dreamt my idian ex burst in the room with her husbandacting full of fun and excitement she hardly gave me a glance  this was a dream based on i know she is better off with him but where do all these dreams leave me ?alone  still knowing every one has moved forward             

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deleted_user
deleted_user

this reminds me of the grief stage of healing.

it\'s so incredibly sad to realize you are alone
or that people aren\'t who you thought they were.

it\'s like you have to grieve the death of a perception.
a perception that was very, very real.

You have many stages happening all at once:
grief and the emergency stage seem to be
happening at the same time.
alantm
alantm

grief and the emergency stage seem to be
happening at the same time. ???