stresses being alone and the idea i am un wanted  myself image do i look a freak  age.. im into a new age band of problems  money ..my income is poor  independence ..by removing myself from everything ..i am..but i dont have a life  fear of new work ...ive planed lots setting up a bussness...but no plan at all on how to get work self confidnce      fear that ill just keep going on in this sad way and die thinking what was it all about        

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deleted_user
deleted_user

Hey

Its difficult to get motivated when you have so many things stressing you out. I used to have such a hard time getting out of bed in the morning because everything was weighing down on me.

But my psychologist taught me how to look at one thing at a time. Taking the easiest things first is the best way and make it how you want it.

That way you have reduced your stress and will improve your self esteem by taking positive action

I know its easy for me to say and so damn difficult to start changing things but it does work.

I have been there (and still am some days) but I am in a much better place and I\'m sure you can find a similar place.
deleted_user
deleted_user

All these fears are not necessary. You are a man. There is evidence everywhere
of women choosing love over anything else.

I think that you, and your sub-concsious thoughts are driving your life
more than you can comprehend.

Aging blows! I hate it. I keep telling my friends that I can\'t wait for sweet death to come along. My body hurts, it\'s harder to do things. Aging needs to be fought - like a war. I\'m too tired to fight it.

Facing these fears is the hardest work you will ever do in your life. I am really starting to get mad at life for continually throwing fears in my face.
alantm
alantm

There is evidence everywhere
of women choosing love over anything else.
...yes but mine left me ...i hear the same things said

i know im not a freak
but its the mirror that is other people
that make it like that

my sub-concsious self is there
i know something is fighting me
.i need a door to it

i also wish i had someone i can turn to
who will guied me
i cant do it
.im lost here