the new job is agood offer
the friend is my closest friend in a long long time
but i cant talk about the things i do here
so that makes you number one in trust for me
its safer ..
thier is a part of me that likes her
as a possible date ,her boyfriend situation is really crap and she is always talking to me
about how he wont talk at a personal level with her
shes talked to me so much now that she has found
all things she wants him to be like are in me
so she keeps talking to me all the time for suport
BUT i know she is the crazy type that will jump over a cliff to follow the thing she has
so i know thats a trap to stay away from
i just find it a little hard that at a time
when things would be in my foavor to stay around
im going .,
she has never made any hints about me
and ive have always just acted as a friend to her
she needs a friend right now not more confusion.
anyway i know nothing would ever happen
i dont think im her type
must be something about me she doesnt chase
but thats ok
new job starts in 3 weeks ish
i wont be working with her agin but
.if she wants a friend still ill be around
its just work that has changed
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its\' about you.
you cannot save her.
you can support her. that is it.
would she do the same for you?
that is a question you have to answer.
or..maybe this is the excuse you need to not go.
you didn\'t really want this job, you know.
the new job is agood offer
the friend is my closest friend in a long long time
but i cant talk about the things i do here
so that makes you number one in trust for me
its safer ..
thier is a part of me that likes her
as a possible date ,her boyfriend situation is really crap and she is always talking to me
about how he wont talk at a personal level with her
shes talked to me so much now that she has found
all things she wants him to be like are in me
so she keeps talking to me all the time for suport
BUT i know she is the crazy type that will jump over a cliff to follow the thing she has
so i know thats a trap to stay away from
i just find it a little hard that at a time
when things would be in my foavor to stay around
im going .,
she has never made any hints about me
and ive have always just acted as a friend to her
she needs a friend right now not more confusion.
anyway i know nothing would ever happen
i dont think im her type
must be something about me she doesnt chase
but thats ok
new job starts in 3 weeks ish
i wont be working with her agin but
.if she wants a friend still ill be around
its just work that has changed
okay, first off:
your self perceptions are off. this is soooooo normal with depression.
you have been worried that you are going to be alone forever.
that was like.... last week?
now you have a romantic prospect?
you should not ever worry about being alone.
trust is earned.
i earned your trust.
i respect that.
i learn from it.
i think you are not opening up to her because you know she will
fall for you. then it will be complicated.
that is wise.
Wise man!
you should stay away from her because she is still involved with someone.
not because she is crazy.
you would probably calm her right down.
but would she be able to do the same for you???