I feel like I am adding pressure and possibly guilt. I don't want her to feel like she has to do anything right now. I love her yeah, but if I'm being too overbearing or something I want her to say something.  I would understand if she wanted me to back off. I don't want to cause her any anxiety or possibly trigger her. I have a feeling I am complicating things and that sure as hell doesn't help. I just want her to be comfortable and happy.