last night

last night he asked me if it was really worth it to me to be with someone that's as loopy as he is in relationships. it was a genuine question, which i'm not even sure i really answered (or needed to), and was not a "test."
this...is...some kind of breakthrough. he's stopped blaming me. and neither one of us is blaming him. so now we can have a nice healthy relationship full of emotional turbulence and push-pull without all the yelling!
ah, sarcasm, you are such a dear, dear friend.