so....that 'friend' lindsay just sent me a message on facebook saying 'hi, how are you'. I said fine and she asked if i went ot that program in falls church. What a fucking idiot. I told her a week before I went in that I was going in. Whatever she is an idiot. I said yes and that was the end. Then she said, 'i have some really great exciting news I want to share with you. Do you want to hear?' Well no, I didn't really give a flying fuck but had to say yes. So she told me and went on and on and on. One would think that my short answers and not talking to her sicne I went in to Reflections would give someone a clue. Clearly not.
She then said, "i'm so excited, yhour wedding is one of the three weddings next year that i am in the bridal party". Fuck. I had to tell her. So I did. Her responses were "ooooh...." "i don't know how to respond" "I know you are entitled to your decisionjust guess I am more shocked, I guess"
i have nothing to respond with
She then said, "i'm so excited, yhour wedding is one of the three weddings next year that i am in the bridal party". Fuck. I had to tell her. So I did. Her responses were "ooooh...." "i don't know how to respond" "I know you are entitled to your decisionjust guess I am more shocked, I guess"
i have nothing to respond with
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Wow - this girl has no clue whatsoever. I think you need to cut ties with her as you clearly are not getting anything out of the relationship except frustration. It will be hard to tell her but it would be great therapy for you to cut that tie from your life. So you told her that she wasn\'t in the bridal party? I think that is what you were going to do and if so, congrats. I can only imagine how hard it was but you will definitely be so happy on that day not to have to deal with her annoying bullshit.
You are doing great work Steph - keep it up :)
Thanks again. Yes I told her she is not in it. Then after that whole saga she kept going on about how her emotions are out of control, blah blah blah. Now...let\'s put what she said in perspective. Her emotions out of control equates to a GOOD day for me, well probably any of us. So I really just wanted to say \"you have no idea what the fuck some people go through\". But instead I said, \"I am sorry that you are having such a difficult time at the moment.\" I felt that was a decent response.
And then I sent all this to her, \"I completely know where you are coming from- I go through that on a daily basis. Be happy for being you and for being healthy. Life could be a lot tougher. So keep your head held high and keep moving forward. You only have one life to live, so don\'t waste it. When things go shitty....think to yourself \"how do i want to respond or act in this siutation\". For example it would make sense if you say \"I just want to be able to move forward and not let this affect me\" Then when you realize what you want..try it and do it. Don\'t let yourself dwell on the bad things that upset you. Focus on how you want to be. Then keep practicing that and you will become that ideal you want to be. If you want to be happy, act happy, and you will become happy. That is one of the best things I have learned. I hope things go better for you.\"
I think that was appropriate....
great you told her she wasnt in the bridal party, it must of been hard to do. i would definetly try and steer clear of her, she does not help your mood and agitation, we dont need those people around us. i think your respnce was more then appropiate, you but a lot of thought into your responce and were very kind. hugss
AWKWARD !!!!
lol it wasn\'t hard at all because guess what? I DIDN\'T GIVE A FLYING SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!
that\'s my girl