Women who Love too Much Community Group
WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.
I saw this on another board and it really resonates within me for my situation. He could never look at himself and his involvement. If I had a problem or an issue it was mine to hear alone without his support or encouragement. I was met with "what now" or he didn't care. I loved this and am going to add it to my list of good stuff.
"The difference between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy one is how both partners deal with the issues that surface in the relationship. If one person is unable to handle confrontation, or cant self-reflect than the relationship will either fall apart or the partner will be forced to sweep his/her feelings and issues in the relationship under the rug. This is a recipe for disaster."
"The difference between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy one is how both partners deal with the issues that surface in the relationship. If one person is unable to handle confrontation, or cant self-reflect than the relationship will either fall apart or the partner will be forced to sweep his/her feelings and issues in the relationship under the rug. This is a recipe for disaster."
swelsha
so very true. integrity is everything.
deleted_user
ive never had a healthy relationship. i've always sort of guessed at what normal feels like....do you think it's possible for someone like to me to have a healthy relationship???
swelsha
pfffht, weenego - you're way too much fun to not attract a very lucky, healthy, hunky man!!
anglvette
I think those healthy relationships are out there for everyone. I think it's about not looking for it, being happy with yourself and not settling for abuse in any form. Right being so new out i am defintely not looking as I thought I was going to be with him forever. But sometime something good is going to come along and they will know they can't live without me and not let me down. I have to hold onto that.
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