Women who Love too Much Community Group

WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.

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Missmom75 07/17/2012

It's storming where I'm at. I normally LOVE LOVE LOVE stroms and torrential rain but of course, it's connected to whats-his-face. He doesn't work on rainy days since he works outdoors, so what woudl happen is this: Seeing as how spending time with him was practically an event, I would take rainy days off from work..call in sick or whatever. Just so I could take my son to daycare and spend a lazy day in bed with M. Ah the sacrifices we make for love.
BARF
Ya today REALLY sucks.

swelsha 07/17/2012

ya. some days are rougher than others for sure. at some point life will be good without the constant reminders of him. instead you'll be happy with the good way you live your life. big hugs

Missmom75 07/17/2012

True. I'm already feeling some changes. But it's the triggers that are a killer.
For example, I met M last year at exactly thsi time. I was vacationing in Florida and we hooked up online. I'm leaving for Florida next week and I just know it's going to be difficult. On top of that, he'll be vacationing there too, at the same time. I was supposed to go stay with him at his condo. :( Oh well.

Missmom75 07/17/2012

Worst part is, we'll be litearlly 5 minutes from each other...were bound to run into each other at the beach or something. UGH

Missmom75 07/17/2012

Oh My gosh, I'm really suffering this morning.
I can't seem to stick to a horrible thought of him.
All that lingers are those tender moments, however few and far between they were. I want to cry. This is not good. Feel like I need to breathe into a paper bag

deleted_user 07/17/2012

Awww, it will get better over time. I know just the mere thought of a day that you would normally spend with him hurts...but just know that in time it will get better. Try to do something today to keep your mind busy. Watch a movie, read a book, write in a journal, listen to music...anything.

Missmom75 07/17/2012

I'm at work and terribly busy tying up loose ends before i leave for holiday. Still...can't seem to concentrate.
I freaken hate him for this.

deleted_user 07/17/2012

You've got this girl. What did you tell me yesterday? Remember. So what if you're having a weak moment? Pick yourself up and dust off! You never know who ELSE you may meet at the beach if you're not busy dwelling on running into that jackass. You're doing great Miss. BREATHE DEEP, pack your bathing suit and think about how you're starting your NEW future (the one about you and your son) with a great holiday.

Missmom75 07/17/2012

Thanks Maryland.
God, I am so pissed at him right now.
Last night I read a few entries in my journals and although I lived every moment that I documented, I felt like I was reading someone else's pathetic memoir. I was SO miserable! How could I be missing that egomaniac??! He made dismissing me an artform!
I'm gonna post one of my entries on here later for all of you to see. So very sad>

Missmom75 07/17/2012

speedy1033 07/17/2012

I know exactly what you mean. I try to remember something terrible about him. I have some videos that I look at where he is so drunk and stupid. That helps me. Also, someone suggested trying to associate things with something else. Like start doing something else on rainy days so you can associate that instead of associating him on rainy days. Make it your brownie making day! lol :)

Missmom75 07/17/2012

That's a GREAT idea!
ugh, gotta get out of this slump

swelsha 07/17/2012

if worse comes to worse missmom, you can mail the tickets for Florida to me and i'll force myself to go there on your behalf. yep i'm just that darn noble. tee hee

Missmom75 07/17/2012

LOL. You're such a good friend. I'm honoured. :)

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