It took 7 breakups to end my relationship and each time I thought my world was going to end until I found this website. Everyone here gave me strenght and I did it!! There are times I wonder what he's doing or if he's thinking about me but then I realize that it doesn't matter, I have to move on.

I think it can so easy just to let all the negativity bring you down but you have to think about the future and all the good things to come because you made the best decision possible. I have made a huge effort to surround myself with positive things and better my life. They may not be huge life altering decision but they bring me happiness and make me poductive in a positive way. I have recently started yoga and I absolutely love it!! It makes me both physically strong and mentally strong. We have started a book club at work, I have purchased a new car (my lease was up) and it was fun looking for one and finding the best deal possible, I have started baking for the holidays and Christmas shopping; last year I didn't enjoy either of those because I was too busy waiting for someone to call me....what a waste of my precious time. These are just a few examples and I plan on adding to this list!!!