Having experienced little security in the past, we mask our need and efforts to control people and situations by "being helpful" We need to be with people who we can help, (needy friends, needy men) in order to feel safe and in control. Protecting ourselves from the panic at being at another's mercy. basically, because we were not protected when we were vulnerable at a young age, we become the protector, to control the enviroment.
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