Wives of Alcoholics Community Group
A forum of healing and help for wives of alcoholics.
While my husband is at work I'm trying to write up a letter to tell him his relapse has gone too far and I need to do what is best for my daughter (7 months pregnant). I want to have him leave, but the problem is he has no car besides mine and nowhere to go. His family is in another state, he has no friends, no money to live in a motel for weeks and would have no ride to work. I don't know what to do!! I thought about leaving him at my house, and going to stay with my parents. The problem is I have two dogs that he won't take care of and I can't take them with me.
You know what.... it's just a damn mess. He did this to me, and I just want to rip his head off. He called me on his lunch break pissed, because I drove him to work today instead of letting him drive my car. When he asks why I say "we'll talk about it this weekend" instead of saying what I want to say "It's because you can't bring your ass home after work, instead you stop off and get drunk then come home bitching at your pregnant wife!" He is furiated and let me know that he will not be babied by me and said whatever I think he is doing after work I am making up in my own mind. I am sick and tired of all the stress he has put on me!! He was sober for sooooo long, and then poof he threw it all away right towards the end of my pregnancy.
I have to do something, I just don't know what. I won't raise my daughter in an alcoholic environment!