Wives of Alcoholics Community Group
A forum of healing and help for wives of alcoholics.
trying to get on with my own life and enjoy family time when that idiot is sober but he actually makes life impossible. He can't just come home drunk and sleep on the sofa, he continuesly rings me so I put my phone on silent and when he does get home he wakes me up knocking on the door and then comes in turning every single light in the house on, banging and crashing around. We have SO many conversations when he's sober about how he wants to change and he doesn't want to be like this, but he can't go more than 3 days without having a drink, never actually goes and gets any help. I know everything says u can't change him he needs to want to change etc etc but how the hell do I live with his behaviour. I absolutely despise him at the minute. Then tomo he will sober up and go back to the lovely person I want him to be and beg me not to leave etc. It's just to much, don't think I can cope with the stress anymore :-(